
Language Development in Children đź‘¶ All Milestones from 0-6 Years âś“ Practical Tips âś“ Recognising Warning Signs âś“ Expert Advice for Parents

Language development is one of the most fascinating wonders of early childhood. From the first cry, through the first conscious "Mama", to complex sentences with which your child describes their world – this journey is a milestone in human development.
Language is far more than simply a means of communication. As experts aptly put it, it is the "key to the world". Current research, including from leading educational institutions such as the Thurgau University of Teacher Education and the Marie Meierhofer Institute for the Child, demonstrates compellingly that early language development is a central prerequisite for a child's future educational and integration opportunities.
This guide serves as your comprehensive companion on this exciting journey. We view language development in children not in isolation, but as a holistic process that is inextricably linked to motor, cognitive and social development.
Together we'll explore the milestones of language development from 0 to 6 years and show you how to support your child optimally in everyday life – playfully and without pressure. We'll also clarify which signs may indicate a delay and when professional support from paediatricians or speech and language therapists is advisable. This guide draws upon the findings of leading Swiss institutions in developmental paediatrics and speech therapy, such as the University Children's Hospital Zurich.
Every child is unique. This individuality is also evident when learning to speak. Some children complete their language development by the age of four, others not until five. Nevertheless, there is a scientifically grounded "roadmap" of milestones that serves as a reliable guide. These milestones describe when most children acquire certain abilities in language comprehension (receptive language) and in speaking (expressive language).
Most children speak their first intelligible words, such as "Mama" or "Dada", between 12 and 18 months of age. Some begin as early as nine months, whilst others take up to two and a half years. Language comprehension, however, develops much earlier.
Long before the first word is spoken, language development begins – with the very first cry. In the first few months, your baby communicates through crying, groaning and gurgling.
After their first birthday, children begin to speak their first words.
In the third year of life, language becomes increasingly sophisticated.
During this phase, the foundation is consolidated and built upon.
Language development is now on the home straight.
The following table summarises the most important developmental stages. It serves as a guide, bearing in mind that variations are normal.
The most important insight from modern pedagogy is that the best language promotion is "integrated into everyday life". It's not about formal "learning" or exercises, but rather about creating a stimulating and language-friendly environment in which the child experiences language as something positive and useful.
You best promote language development by talking to your child frequently, listening to them actively and awakening their joy in speaking. Accompany your actions with language, read picture books daily and don't correct mistakes directly – instead, repeat what was said correctly.
You as parents are the most important language role models. The following methods are simple, highly effective and can be effortlessly integrated into everyday life:
1. Active Listening & Awakening Joy in Speaking:
The foundation of all support is your undivided attention. Respond to your baby's sounds and gestures from the very beginning. Show genuine interest in the content of what your child wants to communicate to you, not in the correct form. When you show the child appreciation for their attempts at speaking, they will be motivated to continue communicating.
2. "Parallel Talk" (Language-Accompanying Action):
Accompany your own actions and your child's actions with language. Whilst cooking, dressing or playing: "Now we're taking the red jacket" or "You're building a tall tower." The child thus learns effortlessly the connection between words and their meaning in the real world.
3. "Recasting" (Corrective Feedback – The Gold Standard):
This is perhaps the most important method for dealing with errors. When your child makes a grammatical or phonetic error, don't correct them directly (e.g. "It's not 'goed', it's 'went'!"). Direct corrections can be demotivating and inhibit the joy of speaking. Instead, pick up on the statement and repeat it "casually" in the correct form.
4. "Expansion" (Expanding):
Add to your child's often brief utterances.
5. Dialogic Reading:
Daily reading aloud is an enormous driver for vocabulary. However, don't limit yourself to simply reading the text. Look at the picture books together. Ask questions ("What do you see there?", "What do you think the dog will do next?"), let your child tell the story and create a dialogue.
6. Patience and Time (Wait Time):
Speaking takes time. Adults often tend to immediately fill the child's pauses in speech. Consciously give your child time to formulate their thoughts and search for words themselves.
In high-quality nurseries, everyday integrated language support is implemented professionally and systematically. Early years practitioners use the entire nursery day as a language learning environment.
Methods in nursery life include:
A study by the City of Zurich has also impressively confirmed what many parents intuitively suspect: attending a nursery promotes language development in the national language (German) significantly compared to children without nursery care. This underscores the important role that modern nurseries play as educational institutions for early language development.
In a globalised world and a multicultural society such as Switzerland, multilingualism is no longer an exception but an invaluable advantage for the future. More than half of the world's population grows up bilingual or multilingual.
Yes, bilingual education offers considerable cognitive advantages. Studies demonstrate that bilingual children often possess better cognitive flexibility, higher problem-solving abilities and enhanced attention control. They also often find it easier to learn additional languages.
The myth persists stubbornly that early bilingual education would "confuse" children or lead to them "not learning either language properly". Modern science clearly refutes these outdated assumptions:
Fact 1: The brain is designed for it. The young child's brain possesses highly effective language acquisition mechanisms in early childhood that enable it to internalise multiple languages simultaneously and with ease.
Fact 2: "Code-switching" is not a deficit. When bilingual children mix languages (e.g. "Can I please have mehr juice?"), this is not a sign of confusion. On the contrary: this "code-switching" is an active, intelligent process and evidence of cognitive flexibility.
Fact 3: Milestones are reached at the same time. Bilingual children fundamentally reach language milestones (first words, two-word sentences) at the same age as monolingual children.
The greatest advantage of bilingual education lies not only in mastering two languages, but in the way the brain is trained as a result.
The constant management of two active language systems in the brain requires high "inhibition control" (the conscious suppression of the language not currently needed) and pronounced "cognitive flexibility" (the rapid switching between systems).
This permanent "brain training" strengthens the so-called executive functions – those higher-order cognitive abilities that are responsible for planning, problem-solving, concentration and attention control. These enhanced abilities are not limited to language, but transfer positively to other academic areas and learning in general.
But how is bilingualism most effectively taught in a nursery? The most scientifically grounded and successful method is so-called immersion.
Immersion means "submersion". It is not traditional language teaching in which vocabulary and grammar rules are learnt.
How immersion works in nursery:
With the immersion method, the target language (e.g. English) is the everyday working, play and communication language. Early years practitioners speak consistently in this language, regardless of the activity. Children therefore don't learn the language, they acquire it naturally – through singing, crafts, playing and in all familiar everyday situations.
The advantages of the immersion method are scientifically proven:
Despite all the individuality in development, there are signs of delays that you as parents should take seriously. Early detection of language disorders is crucial, as early interventions during the preschool years show the greatest effectiveness. Timely support can massively improve communication ability and strengthen the child's self-confidence.
What is a 'Late Talker'?
The term "Late Talker" refers to children who, at the age of 24 months (2 years), have an active vocabulary of fewer than 50 words and/or are not yet forming two-word sentences. This affects approximately 13-20% of all two-year-olds.
The central problem for parents and professionals is that at the time of the delay (at 2 years), one cannot reliably distinguish a "Late Bloomer", who will catch up on their own, from a child with a manifest speech and language disorder (SLD). This distinction is only ever possible in retrospect.
The often-heard recommendation from family or sometimes even professionals to simply wait ("It'll come", "Boys often speak later") is a risky approach.
When a speech and language delay persists beyond the third year of life, it is termed a speech and language disorder (SLD). A broad distinction is made between:
This checklist is based on clinical recommendations compiled, amongst others, by specialists at the University Children's Hospital Zurich for paediatricians, as well as other speech and language therapy guidelines. If you observe several of these points in your child, an assessment is advisable.
The most important message is: don't hesitate to seek professional advice if you have concerns. It's always better to have one assessment too many than to miss an important developmental phase.
Seek advice if your child speaks fewer than 50 words or isn't forming two-word sentences at 24 months (2 years). At the latest, if your child is unintelligible to strangers at 3-4 years, forms grammatically unusual sentences, or is themselves distressed by the situation, a speech and language therapy assessment is advisable.
The process in Switzerland:
Information is also available from Swiss professional associations for speech and language therapy such as the German-Swiss Speech and Language Therapists' Association (DLV) or cantonal associations (e.g. VZL, ZBL).
Here you'll find answers to some of the most common questions parents have about language development.
More than just a perfectly pronounced "Mama" counts as a "word". Speech and language therapists also count the following utterances, as long as they're used consistently for the same meaning:
Yes, this is absolutely normal, to be expected and not a cause for concern. This "code-switching" is not a sign of confusion but an active process that demonstrates cognitive flexibility. Children growing up bilingually typically reach language milestones (e.g. two-word sentences) at the same age as monolingual children.
On the contrary. The concern that early childcare could inhibit language development is unfounded. Studies from Switzerland (specifically the City of Zurich) demonstrate that attending a high-quality nursery significantly promotes language development in the national language compared to children without nursery care.
A distinction must be made here. In babyhood (0-12 months), so-called "parentese" – slow, melodic, expressive speech – is very helpful. It captures the baby's attention and signals affection. However, once your child begins to speak themselves (toddler age), you should use clear, simple but grammatically correct language in complete sentences.
At this age (4-5 years), this is generally not yet a cause for concern. Correct formation of sibilants (s, z, sh) and /r/ is amongst the most difficult and therefore last steps in sound development. Many children don't master these sounds reliably until starting school (around 6 years). A speech and language therapy assessment is only advisable if the child themselves is distressed by it or the problems persist until shortly before starting school.
Language development in children is an individual, complex and wonderful process. As parents, your most important and rewarding task is to create a loving, patient and linguistically rich environment.
Enjoy the dialogue with your child – from the first sounds, through imaginative word inventions, to the profound "Why?" questions that make you think yourself.
Trust your parental intuition and your "gut feeling". If you have concerns about your child's language development, don't hesitate to seek professional advice from your paediatrician or a speech and language therapy service. Early support is the best way to fully and securely place the key to the world in your child's hands.